Potluck Bbq List
Potluck Bbq List
What is the etiquette in this situation?
I decided to help a friend by hosting a dinner this month, and he really wants to host a barbecue with questions of a months time will be warmer. She sent me a message yesterday telling me (do not ask not) to add another person to my list because I assume that this person was with us a few months. For most of us have the same friends, and me, and invited all our friends in common. Now to be honest, did not meet this particular person that night and I remember her. What should I do? I listed some that I do you a favor and over she told me who to invite to my house. What is the etiquette here?
Maybe Your friend can not see the problem with inviting another person, because all the world is a pot luck bring food, it does not mean you have to serve more people. However, I can understand that you're just listed he said rather than asked. I'm not sure this is a question label, because if you and him are close friends, the formality is likely to be somewhat decreased. If you're not that person go home then you have the right to say it, but he said the problem is not with that person but with the additional assistance is that his friend did not ask. Take a risk, let go, be inclusive and that other person happens to pot luck – there is no reason not to. You can end with a new friend.